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Anna Eleri Hart's avatar

When you say poke the bear, what kind of bear are we talking about? I need specifics? One that could become a pet? A polar bear? (could also be a pet in our farm of dreams). x

Carla Salazar's avatar

Petition to join the bear farm! I want to tickle them too 😂😂.

Traci Landy's avatar

membership approved. waivers pending!!!!!

Traci Landy's avatar

ILYSM it hurts. 😂❤️ Poke, then tickle, then SMOOCH it!

Libby McCurrach's avatar

I was just talking about this with a friend. You don't realize how much you care about being liked, when what you really need to do is SPEAK UP. A good reminder!!

Traci Landy's avatar

Libby-- This is 100% IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Noelia Santana's avatar

I am so into the satin shorts + denim shirt + cowboy boots combination — I need to try it out!

And I completely agree about standing up when something does not feel right. I am definitely known for 'poking the bear' when I see injustices happening right in front of me. You never know how you are going to reach people , I feel like a lot of people are never called out, which is why they keep acting unkindly towards others. Sometimes you might be the nudge someone needs to reflect and make amends.

Traci Landy's avatar

You are speaking absolute FACTS!

Stephanie Johnson's avatar

I am dying because I too assume all wild animals will sense my nurturing presence and assume I am safe and I have also tried to fight men twice my size. I love how you blend fashion with what's on your mind, it's such a satisfying read always!!!!

Traci Landy's avatar

LOL, you get me. I knew it the day we sat next to eachother in a dimly lit bar. the BU connection, the tummy probz and your choice to visit Racoon Island —> SEALED THE DEAL!

On Shopping My Closet's avatar

Traci, darling, I have to really stop myself from poking the bear 🙈 I have an allergic reaction to: *“it is what it is” when something needs to be questioned*. Especially if it’s any form of injustice, inequality, stereotypical thinking about certain nations, etc.

Not all fights are worth fighting.

How do I hold back? 🙋🏼‍♀️

Traci Landy's avatar

THIS IS WHY I ADORE YOU. Justice-Warriors-UNITE!

OFELIA's avatar

Thank you for the boot inspo !! I will be stealing it when I can wear mine again. I'm honestly considering getting cowboy-esque mules because I miss my boots in the warmer months.

Also, I'm right there with you with needing an emergency pouch. On vacation, I got a headache and we had to find a pharmacy to get some medicine. It made me think I really should carry a pouch with some essentials everywhere I go.

Traci Landy's avatar

& would ya believe on Friday I went to work only with lash primer on… YET AGAIN! So glad I had my pouch, lol.

And wait, western mules!! I need more intel!

OFELIA's avatar

haha i'm like halfway there, but I do finally have medicine in my bag

I will send you a pic of what I found !!

Elaine Wong's avatar

My husband knows that I am more prone to poking the bear than most people and it gets worse when I'm drunk. Thankfully the hard partying days are long over.. These days I only poke the bear when it comes to my kids or inconsiderate people (looking at people who remain seated on the train when there's a pregnant woman right next to them)!

Traci Landy's avatar

I am laughing so hard. I adore you, Elaine!!

Elaine Wong's avatar

❤️

Katelyn Cnossen's avatar

I love poking the bear! I am also surprised someone has not punched me in the face LOL

The first look I am going to recreate, the white + western boots is such a vibe!

Traci Landy's avatar

Me & you both!! I wore something similar this week, can’t wait to show you & see YOUR take!!

Katelyn Cnossen's avatar

I gotta SEE!!

desiree's avatar

open coffee vessels forever, stainless steel could never

Traci Landy's avatar

IT JUST HITS DIFFERNT IN A CERAMIC MUG!

Ritika's avatar

Poking the bear is infinitely better than living with the regret of not doing it, and I don't believe in regret. Also, you're so right my friend, once you start letting too many things slide, it's hard to stop them, it's a slippery slope (slopes and slides, what's wrong with me today 😬) You're an amazing mom to stand up for your kiddos ♥️

Traci Landy's avatar

Ritika, you are SO WISE my friend. Couldn't agree more re: slippery slope. It can be exhausting, but is always worth it. BIGGEST hugs!

Ritika's avatar

💕💕

Sogole Kane's avatar

That pool lounger float- don’t tempt me with a good time!!

(Poke, poke)

Traci Landy's avatar

LOL.... Imagine floating, mixed drink of your choice, some great tunes, and absolute SILENCE.

FINDS By Ginny's avatar

I wish I could see you poke the bear ha!! And this gives me encourage to poke the bear when needed :)

I love the looks- 🤠

And you

Thank you!!

Traci Landy's avatar

YOU GOT THIS, GINNY!!! I shall be your hype gal! xx

FINDS By Ginny's avatar

Yes I shall refer to you when I need some encouragement on

This haha

Traci Landy's avatar

I gotchu!! xx

Carla Salazar's avatar

I chuckle at “some ppl count calories, I want to count naps”😂. You’re hilarious, my friend. Someone give this woman a standup show. I will attend.

You make western boots look SO COOL! I love all the outfits, especially the graphic tee one.

Traci Landy's avatar

That line took me OUT as I typed it so THANK YOU for always finding and acknowledging my FAVE Easter eggs, LOL! I am going to get my money's worth with those boots if it's the last thing I do! xx

Carla Salazar's avatar

New mission: find all the easter eggs in your posts hahaha. I SEE YOU! 🫶🏼

Meggie Arbelaez's avatar

Outfit 1 is my dream summer outfit! Love those boots so much

Traci Landy's avatar

I feel like you would rock it SO DAMN WELL! We may just need the FL sun to chill the F out a bit, right???

Meggie Arbelaez's avatar

Literally 😅 my feet may sweat! Ha

Julie Schechter's avatar

I love this, Tracy. At my bachelorette party, I tried to break up a fight between two grown men (who were total strangers, btw) because I apparently "thought I could take them." (I may have been slightly inebriated.) To poking the bear!!! (Maybe a little more responsibly than that.)

Traci Landy's avatar

Julie, I love you even more than I already did. I'm also curious if your time at the big H ever brought you to BU's campus to indulge at T's Pub on Comm ave!?!

Julie Schechter's avatar

No, but maybe that’s where we eventually have our first friend date? I am open to travel.

Traci Landy's avatar

Sadly, it’s a shell of its former self and has become a Korean BBQ joint. Great food I’m sure, just not the same. We will strategize……….

Leslie Petrovski's avatar

Love how clean and subtly renegade these fits are, just grazing subversive. Like you’re poking your closet. 🐻

Traci Landy's avatar

TY so much! I had fun with this one — definitely made me have to think a bit (to get those creative juices flowing).

Ahhh, I see what you’re doing there 🧸